During these days of uncertainty, many women seek strong, positive, wise and vital examples of aging. Fortunately, such role models exist. These women embody the character of the wise old woman archetype. Their lives provide inspiration and guidance for the darkest of days.
January 1, 2022
Ursula K. Le Guin (1929-2018) Fantasy is Reality
Ursula Le Guin was a celebrated author whose body of work includes 23 novels, 12 volumes of short stories, 11 volumes of poetry, 13 children’s books, five essay collections, and four works of translation. Her writings of speculative fiction cover themes of social and political issues. At the age of 81, Le Guin started a blog which later became essays in her book No Time to Spare. Throughout her work she continued to address issues of age, race and gender. For example, "I’d like a poster showing two old people with stooped backs and arthritic hands and time-worn faces sitting talking, deep, deep in conversation. And the slogan would be: Old Age Is Not for the Young."
"Men call women faithless, changeable, and though they say it in jealousy of their own ever-threatened sexual honor, there is some truth in it. We can change our life, our being; no matter what our will is, we are changed. As the moon changes yet is one, so we are virgin, wife, mother, grandmother. For all their restlessness, men are who they are; once they put on the man's toga they will not change again; so they make a virtue of that rigidity and resist whatever might soften it and set them free."
October 16, 2021
Jane Goodall (1934- ) From Scientist to Activist
“You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you. What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make.” ―
“I'll go on fighting till the day I die. Because I'm passionate, and because I believe we have a window of time. … [I]t’s only if we all do our bit and get together that we can start slowing down climate change [and] heal some of the harm that we've inflicted.”
Jane’s life and her continuing hope that we can still reverse the impact of climate change, gives her listeners the belief that their actions can make a difference.
September 14, 2021
Iris Apfel (1921 - ) Doing the Unexpected.
Iris is an interior designer and fashion icon. In 2005, the Metropolitan Museum of Art had a showing of her fashion style (oversized jewelry and eye glass frames with bright, eccentric clothing combinations). She became an overnight sensation at 84 years old and a cover girl in her 90s! Her individualistic, unique and playful fashion style encourages older women to step out of the shadows. The Museum said of her style, "Her originality is typically revealed in her mixing of high and low fashions - Dior haute couture with flea market finds, 19th century ecclesiastical vestments with Dolce & Gabbana lizard trousers." Her style and free spirit has captured the imagination of many. Signs of her late life success are many. A Barbie doll was made after her image and she was the subject of a 2014 documentary about her life. The book shown above is filled with her joyous style. Iris once said, "I never expected people to know my name or recognize my face, I never expected to be called a fashion icon. I never expected museums to exhibit my clothing and accessories. I never expected to be a cover girl or the face of a cosmetics company in my nineties... I never expected anything. I just feel things in my gut and I go them. If something sounds exciting and interesting I do it - and then I worry about it later. Doing new things takes a lot of energy and strength. Its very tiring to make things happen, to learn how to master a skill, to push fears aside. Most people would rather just go with the flow: it's much easier. But it's not very interesting."